The Real Reason Behind Selena Gomez and Blake Lively’s Absence Together with Taylor Swift, as Insiders Shed Light on Their Avoidance

Do Taylor Swift’s two closest friends have a bad relationship? According to insiders, Selena Gomez and Blake Lively ‘AVOID’ spending time together, which is the REAL reason they are never spotted together with popstar.

Although Taylor Swift, Blake Lively, and Selena Gomez are best friends, the three ladies are never seen together. Insiders are now disclosing the unđť–Šxpectđť–Šd reason why the three women are never seen together.

When football enthusiast Selena, 31, failed to show up for Taylor’s A-list group at this year’s Super Bowl final—which featured Lana Del Rey, Ashley Avignone, Kaleigh Sperry, and Blake supporting Travis Kelce as the Kansas City Chiefs ran away with victory—questions were raised.

Insiders now allege that there is ill will between Blake, 36, and Selena, 34, who are supposedly not friends and prefer to spend time apart rather than “mix.”

‘This is the reason neither of them are ever with Taylor at the same time and are constantly avoiding run-ins with each other,’ a source told DailyMail.com exclusively.

Taylor Swift might be best pals with Blake Lively and Selena Gomez - but they never spend time together as a trio - Taylor and Blake pictured at the 2024 Super Bowl final, without Selena

Taylor Swift might be best pals with Blake Lively and Selena Gomez – but they never spend time together as a trio, and insiders are now revealing the surprising reason the three women are never pictured hanging out as a group

Taylor Swift might be best pals with Blake Lively and Selena Gomez – but they never spend time together as a trio – Taylor and Blake pictured at the 2024 Super Bowl final, without Selena

Selena, 31, pictured with Taylor, 34, at the 2023 Golden Globes, and Blake, 36, are 'not friends,' insiders have told DailyMail.com

Selena, 31, pictured with Taylor, 34, at the 2023 Golden Globes, and Blake, 36, are ‘not friends,’ insiders have told DailyMail.com

On  December 12 last year Selena - who has been best friends with Taylor since 2008 - went to dinner in NYC (pictured) to celebrate Taylor's birthday

On  December 12 last year Selena – who has been best friends with Taylor since 2008 – went to dinner in NYC (pictured) to celebrate Taylor’s birthday

The following day, which marked Taylor's 34th, Selena was not present for her big party, when the singer was pictured celebrating with Blake (pictured)

The following day, which marked Taylor’s 34th, Selena was not present for her big party, when the singer was pictured celebrating with Blake (pictured)

Instead, Selena posted a birthday tribute on Instagram and wrote: 'I love you.' A source told DailyMail.com: 'Selena plays a different role in Taylor's life than Blake'

Instead, Selena posted a birthday tribute on Instagram and wrote: ‘I love you.’ A source told DailyMail.com: ‘Selena plays a different role in Taylor’s life than Blake’

Selena was absent from Taylor's Super Bowl girl squad in February which included Blake, and instead reacted to a photo of the group on Instagram with a crying emoji and a black heart

 

Blake was part of Taylor’s Super Bowl girl squad in February, but Selena was missing. Instead, she reacted to an Instagram photo of the group with a black heart and a sobbing emoji.

Although Selena and Taylor didn’t seem to have ever been pictured together, they had already become friends by the time Blake entered the picture in 2015. The two had originally become friends in 2008.

Desperate “Swiftie” investigators have been attempting to determine why Selena, a devoted football lover, did not attend the Super Bowl. Rather, she only remarked on a picture of the singer with her friends from the final with a dejected face emoji and a black heart.

Unlike Blake, who was spotted with her at three games last season, she has never gone to support Travis with Taylor.

After tallying dozens of events, such as all of Taylor’s birthday celebrations, Fourth of July get-togethers, and New Year’s Eve festivities, DailyMail.com discovered Selena and Blake have never gone together.

Taylor skipped the TIME Person of the Year Gala in New York City on December 12 in favor of dinner at Zero Bond with Selena, Kaleigh, and her 37-year-old actor husband, Miles Teller. Taylor would have turned 34 on that day.

Blake wasn’t there, but she was there to celebrate the next night at Taylor’s blowout party, when she joined Gigi Hadid, 25, and Zoe Kravitz, 28, among other famous friends of the singer.

But Selena was conspicuously missing.

Rather than that, the former Disney actress posted a birthday greeting on Instagram along with a picture of Taylor pecking her cheek.

In 2023, Selena shared photos of her Fourth of July celebration with Taylor (pictured) -  Noticeably absent was Blake, who has watched the fireworks with Taylor in previous years

In 2023, Selena shared photos of her Fourth of July celebration with Taylor (pictured) –  Noticeably absent was Blake, who has watched the fireworks with Taylor in previous years

Taylor, photographed with Blake and other girl squad members including Gigi Hadid, 35, and Cara Delavigne, did not include Selena in this recent Fourth of July photo

In a recent Fourth of July shot, Taylor, shown with Blake and other female squad members like 35-year-old Gigi Hadid and Cara Delavigne, left Selena out.

“Happy birthday to @taylorswift, the goddess.” She wrote, “I love you.”

The reason she was unable to attend her best friend’s birthday celebration was not mentioned.

“You know who to invite and who not to invite for a good hangout and good party,” another insider told DailyMail.com. “Taylor understands that it needs to be two different nights and that she shouldn’t mix Blake and Selena in the same room.

Blake is content with his superstar lifestyle. She enjoys having fun a lot.

She is contagious and wants to join in on any exciting activities that are happening. Everyone, including Taylor, adores Blake for this reason. She is aware that spending time with Blake will always result in laughter and a wonderful time.

“Blake will be in the mix when Taylor wants to hang loose,” they said. Simply said, Selena has a different impact on Taylor’s life. That is all there is to it.

Blake was not present when Selena, Taylor, and Kaleigh attended the Golden Globes on January 7 and partied late into the night.

Three days later, Blake, Kaleigh, and Zoe took Taylor out to supper in New York City. Selena did not attend; she was still in New York City.

Selena and Blake don’t seem to have ever been pictured together at any events, such as the Met Gala or any of the award ceremonies, such as the SAG Awards, Emmys, or Golden Globes.

Although there aren’t any photos of them together, they were both there on Saturday Night Live on November 14, 2021, when Taylor served as the guest presenter and performed the Taylor’s rendition of her song, All Too Well.

Blake, pictured with Taylor and Gigi Hadid at the singer's birthday, reportedly avoids 'run ins' with Selena

Blake, pictured with Taylor and Gigi Hadid at the singer’s birthday, reportedly avoids ‘run ins’ with Selena

The insider said it was 'odd' that Taylor, pictured with Blake in January, never hangs out with her two close friends together

According to the insider, Taylor’s hesitation to hang out with her two closest friends together—as evidenced by a selfie she posted with Blake in January—is “odd.”

Selena saw a TikTok video that Taylor had posted from her dressing room prior to the concert, most likely while watching Taylor perform backstage.

Blake was at the taping with her husband Ryan Reynolds, and they saw Taylor perform live.

All Too Well was recorded in the Westchester County home that Blake, Ryan, and their kids call home. Taylor’s “I Bet You Think About Me” music video was also directed by Blake.

After the SNL taping, Blake and Ryan were spotted at the after-party. However, Selena was not there.

It seems that Selena has only mentioned the Gossip Girl star once in the ten years that she and Blake have been pals.

In 2016, she was asked about the actress for a beauty piece in an Elle magazine interview.

“I wish we were friends, but she’s not mine,” said the woman. Blake, you look lively. Even though we’ve never met, her hair always makes me swoon. Her hair is so beautiful and carefree. She seems so beachy to me.

The trio did both turn out to support Taylor when she performed All Too Well (Taylor's version) on SNL on November 14, 2021 - but they were not pictured together

On November 14, 2021, the trio did show up to support Taylor when she sang All Too Well (Taylor’s rendition) on Saturday Night Live, but they were not shown in photos together.

Taylor shared a TikTok video of her and Selena backstage (pictured). The actress did not appear to watch the show in the audience, or attend the after party

A TikTok video of Taylor and Selena backstage was posted. The actress did not seem to attend the after-party or watch the concert in the audience.

Blake and her husband Ryan Reynolds were both pictured in the audience and made an appearance at the afterparty (pictured outside)

Blake was photographed in the audience, and she appeared at the afterparty with her husband Ryan Reynolds (shown outside).

The source thinks it’s’still weird’ that ‘no one has noticed that Selena and Blake have never been in the same room at the same time.’

They remarked, “Blake seems to be closer to the A-list girls than Selena.” Because she is such a well-known celebrity in her own right, Selena sort of goes after her own path.

There is never any doubt about Taylor’s friendships. People are always focusing on her because she is surrounded by so many stunning and well-known acquaintances. Whenever she is out with her girls, she always appears to be having a great time.

In addition, she has posted numerous pictures of Blake and Selena on social media. That’s just the way things are and have always been.